What's your identity?

	Psychological symptoms	Personality symptoms	Social symptoms
Refuser	Development of cognitive blocks which prevent adoption of adult role-schemas	Engages in child-like behavior	Shows extensive dependency upon others, no meaningful engagement with the community of adults
Drifter	Greater resources at their disposal than the Refuser (i.e., intelligence, charisma)	Apathetic towards application of resources at their disposal	No meaningful engagement with or commitment to adult communities
Searcher	Sense of dissatisfaction, high personal and social expectations	Disdain for imperfections within the community	Some interactions with role-models, but ultimately these relationships are abandoned
Guardian	Clear personal values and attitudes, but a deep fear of change	Sense of personal identity is almost exhausted by sense of social identity	Extremely rigid sense of social identity; strong identification with adult community
Resolver	Conscious desire for self-growth	Acceptance of personal skills and competencies, as well as active use of them	Responsive to communities that provide opportunity for self-growth

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beliefs-

she always have chunks of theory in her head and she never fails to let me know them..
i used to take them for granted and chuck them aside.
when we proceed into our poly lives, then i realised how true and nice they were. They're the truest things I've heard.

Suman and i were discussing about our beliefs in belief.
because of her religion, she read up alot and chants.
She believes chanting gives her the concentration, relaxation and relief.
She's in design school, she realised that those who believed in their work and find them nice, will score.

and she did!

But I only agree this point to a certain extend.
Believing is just a step to success, hardwork and accuracy in work are ingredients that make success.
Just hardwork itself is also insufficient, you know it's incomplete. Hardwork is never enough. Some are so hardworking but they just cannot make it.
Some are so clever but they're just lazy, hence they cannot make it.
Some believe, but there's no action in it.
Some has the action, but they don't believe in themselves, their work, their action.
Where some believe, they act, and they believe.

and so we agreed Belief is just the first step to success.

Eunice's 19 and she's married yesterday!

I'm so happy from my dear friend. She's married yesterday. I was the bridesmaid. Hope she'll be happy with her new family and enjoy the little moments of her life. blissful life. :D

the bride
bridesmaid.
peony jade (just beside Indochine at Clark Quay. very nice ambience!)
the newly weds. a lil dark, but they look so happy.
nice view i took today. hahaha

Congrats! <3

weird days-

1. i blame myself for blaming u.
2. i will stop spending and save.
3. SAVE!

lets listen to this song...



My tarot card:

You scored as XIX: The Sun. This is the happiest card in the deck. It is full of joy and optimism, everything is right with the world. We are as innocent children playing in the fields without care. The Sun brings success, well-being and happiness in all spheres - material, emotional, spiritual -wherever our desires lay.When this card appears in a Tarot spread it indicates success, joy and happiness. Obstacles will be overcome, goals achieved.When badly aspected, it can indicate a stagnation through over-indulgence, too much of a good thing. XIX: The Sun 81% III - The Empress 75% XI: Justice 69% 0 - The Fool 69% XVI: The Tower 63% VIII - Strength 56% II - The High Priestess 56% XV: The Devil 50% X - Wheel of Fortune 50% XIII: Death 44% VI: The Lovers 44% I - Magician 38% IV - The Emperor 25% Which Major Arcana Tarot Card Are You? created with QuizFarm.com

and i used to be an indian in my past life? LOL.
perhaps im a fair-skinned indian.
some more CHIEF of SHIT WORK. ok that was just an eg.. CHIEF of some job i was doing in my pastlife..
no wonder i've been doing all the shit work in the world.

Lesson, that your last past life brought to present:
You are bound to learn to understand other people and to meet all life difficulties with joyful heart. You should help others, bringing them spirit of joy.

Try this and see ur past life... haha. u might just be an indian like me.
Tarot reading 1
Tarot reading 2

Sheena 23-

Sheena 23.
Happy Birth Day to you!
Hope u will still love coffee. XP


Chester 19.
Happy Birth Day to you too.
Known u since sec 1 and classmate til sec 4.
and now we're in Poly year 3. time flies. it really do.

may we still be frns even when we're 100!

April 25th, 07.

April 25th, 07.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to MYSELF!

Nineteen.

1 big 9 small candles. Gets a little crowded on the cake.

Must really thank all my good pals who celebrated my birthday on 25^th apr 07.

Whether in school, gave me whipped cream on the face and coffee and water all over me (stank), and they got wet too, had a reeel awesome CHEESECAKE, then kayaked with me at bedok reservoir,

OR

Those who watched 200 Pounds Beauty with me and chilled at Starbucks and had my favourite Mango Cake.

You guys made my day! Thanks to those who gave me present too.

19 will be a nice number to buy for TOTO. Haha.

Thank you!

Girls' SL Dragon boat 1st! BIZ school overall CHAMP!-

long hot day for 2nd day of orientation.
Preparation for Dragon Boat Regatta begins at lunch break 1+pm.
Super duper hot! woot.
Racing at ard 4+ or 5+.
It was a hard and tiring day,
By the time of the race the TOILET is our drive to win the competition as we drank too much water during our training. haha.
but our effort did not go down the drain.

the Business SL Girls' BOAT (our boat) came in 1st!!


it's a really good experience to row in a team. it's not just plain rowing. it takes teamwork and everyone's effort.
CHIONG AH!!!

BUSINESS won the overall Championship this year and it's the 3rd consecutive year! we rock our socks.




burnt.

TP freshmen orientation-

1st day of TP freshmen orientation. taking part in dragon boat regatta.
YAY i can finally row tat boat w/o running rounds and rounds in the reservoir! heh.

updates-

havent been updating for nearly 2 weeks.
this vacation's the busiest and fullest. it's also the holiday which i havent been staying at home most of the time.

Where have i been?

- Genting
- Sec school class chalet
- Work
- Hair cut
- 7-day camp in TP.
- celebrated Xiang Ni's bday (night safari)

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Genting: 4 days, 3 nights

started off with Joan's lovey dovey bread for breakfast on the coach

and this is Sam's sit. he can't go due to certain reason.
Sam, we thot of u! thx for donating this $83 seat to us! XP

shopped for the 1st day.

then they played games which i dont.

and we played games which i do.

i dont,

we do! make the simplest thing the most exciting thing.

found an old school coke dispenser.

NEVER SAY DIE!
that's my hand

chillin at coffeebean

kawaii shots.

we got our own casino in our room.

you're on candid camera~

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4e2 class chalet

that's how u defrost.

the guys do the work. that's the way!

after BBQ, we started Twister.

got really twisted.

Joanne, the 7th-level PIG. haha!

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work?
nothing to talk about but ranting. so let's not talk about them. haha.


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hair cut.
real short.

fromto

ppl ask: "You bear to cut your hair?! til so short?"
YES.

ppl ask: "Don't you regret?"
NO. i like it. it's my choice. have faith in urself, in life and in ur decisions.


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7-day camp in TP.

being in Food+amin isnt as slack and easy as u think. all the shit work u'd have never done in ur whole life.
Latest to sleep yet the earliest to wake to prepare breakfast and supper.
carry the water tumblers here and there to prepare drinks for the whole camp. grrr.

nevermind the shitwork, used to them.
we still had some fun.

lawmatesmidnight duty. u dono how late we stayed up to look after the stuff. entertained ourselves with heart-to-heart talk and guitar of cos.

Hong-Kong style phototaking

Final clash

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Xiang Ni's bday.

preparation for her bday. blood and sweat for such sweet stuff.random.

ahma mallow

Gangsta mallow

went for dinner at Bakerzin. it was raining cats and dogs and we're to go from Paragon to DFS to take the bus to Night Safari. finally reached Far east plaza (oppo DFS) and we saw the bus went off right infront of our naked eyes. like EFF. there's only 1 bus from thr. no more.
den we went DFS to ask abt the shuttle bus to double check if there's anymore timeslot for the bus. they said the bus will stop in front of Hyatt Hotel in 10 more minutes.
"I don't think you will make it." was how the receptionist gave us HOPE. how nice.
the stupid stop is only at Far East Plaza la. luckily we saw it when we came out and ZoooooooooooooM we rushed across the bridge and boarded the bus.

PHEW! how adventurous.

LOL. why on ur bday XN? ure 19.
it's my turn soon. in 7 more days. fammit!

dead lizard-

tah-mah-de.
dead lizard on my table.
when will my dad remove it?